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Theresa Tinkers with Paternity Leave


We are one of the most expensive countries in the world to raise a family and women often feel like they have to make big career sacrifices because of caring responsibilities. Meanwhile, there are a growing number of men who want to play a bigger role in their children’s lives and take a step out of the rat race to enjoy the precious and fleeting early years. Our guest editor and Tower Hamlets Dad, Matthew Gunton, has a thing or two to say about paternity leave…

One of Theresa May’s parting gifts to the electorate as she tried to secure a legacy is to encourage Dad’s to take a more active role in early years parenting.  She hoped to incentivize men to stay at home for longer immediately after the baby is born.

Currently, there are two types of parental leave available to Dad’s;

  1. Statutory Paternity Leave: The standard policy that has been in place for some time – 2 weeks at £148.68 per week or 90% pay, whichever is lower.
  1. Shared Parental Leave (SPL): A new policy introduced by the Tories in 2015 . This allows mum to share  50 weeks of maternity leave with Dad, the pay he receives being at the employer’s discretion.

It is the first policy, “Statutory Paternity Leave”, that May wants to improve by extending it to 12 weeks – the first four weeks on 90% pay and a further eight weeks on a standard flat rate. Flexibility regarding the further eight weeks is unclear/undecided.

Given the importance Dad plays in a child’s early years’ this seems a welcome development. It was not so long ago that social scientists deemed Dad irrelevant with mum playing the most significant role during infancy. They believed babies were incapable of forming significant relationships with anybody other than their mums.

However, contemporary research reveals the opposite; fatherhood plays a key role in early development. Amongst other things, Dad has a significant impact on language development, social skills (self-control and co-operation) and adult mental health.

So, are the Conservatives attempting to bring policy into line with modern thinking or is it just lip service?

Has Statutory Parental Leave Been Successful?

If we look at the attempt at “SPL”, it has been a total failure. Of the 285,000 couples who qualify, only 2% take the leave. In response, the government spent £1.5 million on a PR campaign, “Share the joy”, to encourage commitment to the scheme. The results disappointed as the campaign was merely an exercise in putting lipstick on a pig.

Looking abroad, uptake of similar policies has soared;

Portugal – 63%,

Quebec – 86%

Iceland – a whopping 91%.

What does this tell us? Are British men just not interested in babies? What are we getting wrong?

In my experience, as one of the few that qualified and took the opportunity, the first obstacle was trying to make sense of the policy. It was a confusing and difficult process to navigate for both myself and my wife who are both university-educated. Just in writing this article ensuring the accuracy of the policies was a challenge. Research online reveals this confusion is common not only to participants but also HR departments attempting to implement the scheme. Even the naming of the policy leads to confusion as it shares the same acronym “SPL” as the other established policy.

Beyond the confusion, finances were the most significant factor. When my son was 9 months I took unpaid leave because, although my employer advertised that they offered paid parental leave, they decided to mirror mum’s entitlement. This meant I could have only received pay for a limited period after the first 6 weeks. Again, this wasn’t made clear and we didn’t discover this until the run-up to taking the time off. It’s ridiculous, it de-incentivises the entire endeavour. The fact is, there are few women willing or physically able to give up mumming and return to work after just six weeks. And as women still make 80p to the pound, the majority of families are not fortunate enough to be able to take such a hit to their income. Indeed, research into the poor uptake revealed finances to be the primary concern. The other factors were social stigma (Emasculated Dad) and the impact on career.

This all amounts to quite a simple answer: Tory policy does nothing to address gender inequality. Offering only a share of Mum’s entitlement as opposed to offering Dad his own entitlement renders the entire policy flawed and unworkable.

What does work?

Sweden, the gold standard in progressive parenting, noted a similar reluctance in uptake so offered men their own entitlement on a take it or lose it basis. Uptake was enthusiastically embraced and the policy has been a success for four decades. Consequently, they have developed a strong tradition in which men are not just encouraged but assumed to be taking leave and play an active parental role in their child’s early years.

If May really wanted to leave a lasting legacy, positively impacting family life for generations to come, then, as opposed to extending “Statutory Paternity Pay”, she would be better off reworking “Shared Parental Leave”. Sweden’s “SPL for Dummies” is probably a useful guide.

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How will we ever achieve equality if we don’t at first make things equal?

If you think it’s about time our country made it possible for both men and women to raise families, achieve their full potential in the workplace and attend to caring needs, please take time to sign this petition and pass it on to your friends.

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